Starting Fresh at 64:                        Saying Yes to a Puppy
Life With Dogs Joann Rechtine Life With Dogs Joann Rechtine

Starting Fresh at 64: Saying Yes to a Puppy

Getting a Puppy at 64. What Could Possibly Go Wrong?

He is not even here yet and I am already having feelings.

I am also a retired dog trainer who specialized in complex behavior issues.

You would think that combination would make me calm and confident. Instead, Instead, I am mildly nauseous and Googling things like “normal puppy biting?” as if I have not been teaching this stuff for decades.

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Living Without a Dog for the First Time in 35 Years
Life With Dogs Joann Rechtine Life With Dogs Joann Rechtine

Living Without a Dog for the First Time in 35 Years

Living Without a Dog for the First Time in 35 Years

Seven months ago, we lost our dog.

Even typing that still feels strange. He was woven into every corner of our days. The click of nails on the floor. The rhythm of morning walks. The quiet weight beside me in the evening. When he died, the house did not just feel empty. It felt wrong. Too tidy. Too quiet. Like it was waiting for something.


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Saying Goodbye and Then Living with It
Life With Dogs Katherine Forbes Life With Dogs Katherine Forbes

Saying Goodbye and Then Living with It

TRIGGER WARNING - this post is about behavioral euthanasia. I posted about Elke, our GSD, when she passed away in December. What I could not write then was that her death was a behavioral euthanasia. Even though I know that the decision we made for Elke was the kind and humane thing to do, I still felt like I failed her.

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Let Them Sniff
Life With Dogs Katherine Forbes Life With Dogs Katherine Forbes

Let Them Sniff

Today I had to practice what I preach when it comes to sniffing walks. We went to a location that we had not been to in a couple of weeks and a spin about this park usually takes us 15 minutes. Today, the sniffing walk lasted 55 minutes! Clearly, Gibbs had some catching up to do in this park.

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Self-Forgiveness
Life With Dogs Katherine Forbes Life With Dogs Katherine Forbes

Self-Forgiveness

This photo is not put up to let you see how beautiful this sunrise is; it is shown to be a reflection of what life has been like with our sound-sensitive GSD Elke this week and to talk about forgiving yourself when you make a training mistake.

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The Many Hackles of Elke
Life With Dogs Katherine Forbes Life With Dogs Katherine Forbes

The Many Hackles of Elke

When you live with a reactive or fearful dog, you live a life of hypervigilance. If you’re lucky enough, your dog might have a tell or outward sign that shows you when he or she is reaching their threshold or state of over-arousal.

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It Is Time
Life With Dogs Katherine Forbes Life With Dogs Katherine Forbes

It Is Time

Let’s start this with me sharing that I avoid confrontation at all costs. I am a people pleaser, a retired nurse, and I look for peace and harmony all the time. I tackle tough issues privately with people but never in a public forum. As such, I am more than a little scared of where this blog post may take me. Here we go……

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